13个小贴士帮你评定优质爱情【上】

现在的年轻人或多或少在恋爱关系中都会觉得爱的心有余而力不足，爱的有心无力，爱的毫无头绪，爱的紊乱不堪！心中难免产生各种各样的困惑，爱是一种需要学习的能力，爱不是简单的你对我好，我对你好。

现在让我来为大家总结一下，13个小贴士帮你评定优质爱情，看看你们的情侣关系是不是这样子的呢？如果不是，那就需要往这个方面去努力啦。

1.She encourages you to pursue your goals, but she doesn't micromanage. She trusts you to make the right decisions in your own life. She's the cheerleader, not the coach.

1.她鼓励你追求你的目标，但并不会事无巨细都要插手。她相信你能在自己的生活中做出正确的抉择。她会是个强有力的支持者，而不是个指手画脚的教练。

2.She doesn't try to make you jealous. She's secure in her worth, and your ability to recognize how valuable she is. She doesn't need to play games to 「trick」 you into seeing her her for what she is.

2.她不会试图让你嫉妒。她对自身的价值有把握， 而且相信你具有能力看出她的与众不同的能力。她不需要跟你玩些小伎俩来骗你把注意力放到她身上。

3.She doesn't have a princess complex. She demands that you treat her with respect — but because she is a person you love, not because she is a woman and therefore magically entitled to something. Just as she would expect you to treat your friends and family with respect, she knows you wouldn't treat her any other way. A high-quality woman wouldn't be with a man who was disrespectful to the people he is close to in life.

3.她没有公主病。她需要的是你的尊重--但只基于她是你的挚爱，而不是因为她是个女人因此必须注定得到什么特殊关照。当你怀以尊重地对待朋友、家人时，她期待你也会如此对她。一个的女人不会跟一个连自己生命中亲近的人都不尊重的男人一起生活。

4.She has a part of her life that doesn't involve you. Friends, hobbies, career — whatever. She's confident and independent enough to not need your involvement in everything she does.

4.她有自己的私人生活，不需要你的介入。朋友、兴趣、事业--或是其他。她足够自信和独立，不需要你事事关心。

5.You wouldn't think twice about inviting her into different parts of your life: a barbecue with your college friends, a dinner with your parents, a fancy work party — she knows how to handle herself in different settings. She's mature enough to make a good impression with your colleagues and wise enough to know letting loose with your friends and having fun doesn't mean she's immature.

5.你不需要再三考虑是否让她参与你的生活的不同部分：和大学同学的烧烤聚会，和家人的晚宴，工作应酬----她知道如何应付不同的场面。她足够成熟，让你的大学同学印象深刻，足够智慧知道如何与你的朋友打成一片。

6.She takes care of herself. This doesn't mean she is perfect, it means she is always improving. You don't have to tell her she needs to solve a problem in her life. She's self-aware and sees what issues she has and is self- motivated enough to constantly be working to improve them. She needs a partner, not a dad.

6.她会照顾好自己。这不意味着她是完，这意味着她在试图变得完美。你不必告诉她在生活中需要如何解决问题。她会自我反省，并审视自身问题并且不断激励自己去努力改善。她需要一个陪伴她做这些事的人，而非一位父亲。

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